Hi,
As someone who has battled the above once, I thought I'd post on here and let people know that if there is anyone out there going through the same thing now and would like to speak to someone who has been through it before and ask any questions they like - please get in touch with me.
I wrote a website about my epxerience as well. www.linkinachain.bravehost.com
Pretty basic but it was just somewhere to write down my thoughts at the time and thought it might help others.
Please feel free to get in contact with me if you want to.
Isabel :o)